2012年11月28日星期三

我的婆家

大姑告诉我,家婆拨电问女儿,在电视上看到的是不是他们家的媳妇儿。
家公看了那一集,还追问有续集吗,大姑打趣地说:看重播吧。

当我知道后,心里有点愧疚。
虽然不是什么大事,我竟然没有通知他们一声,却要他们自己去求证。
当了“谢家”10年的媳妇儿,
说真的,我并不是什么好媳妇。
自认厨艺不精,从未下厨煮过一餐半菜。
由于长期在外,加上女儿在娘家,所以回婆家的次数也很少。

虽然婆家是个很传统的家庭,但是家公家婆却不是难相处的古早人。
他们从来没有因为“生儿育女”事,向我施压。
每一趟回去,他们大鱼大肉递到面前。
总是怕我们吃不饱,喝不够。
自从我嫁入他们家,家公家婆还因为我不懂说潮洲话而迁就我改说华语。

家公出国旅行,给自个儿的孩子买礼物,一样也会给我买。
一直以来,他们都当我像自己的亲女儿般。
我的2个小孩出世后,由母亲看顾孩子,可是家公家婆风雨不改,几乎每个星期都到我娘家探望孙女,给孙女买吃的,喝的。


大姑小姑更是对我非常尊敬,
我们不亲密,但是却是有说有笑,相敬如宾。
我2个小千金更是在他们的呵护下长大。
我姐说:要是嫁作其他家,说不定早已嫌弃很多了。
是的,我该感恩,他们是多么地大方,尊重我。

近期,即使先生工作不便回乡,我还是会自己带着2个女儿回乡看看老人家。
我觉得身为一个媳妇,我为他们做的事真的太少太少了。
如果让他们看看孙女能让他们更加安心欢喜,
我当然愿意这么做。

昨天我开车从家乡返隆,
经过婆家,我还是把车子拐了进去,没有目的,只是进屋叫叫家婆一声“妈”看看她。
她还是一样,
把桌上煮好的虾子装了给我,叫我拿回去吃。

我婆家就是这样,
每一个人都不是很热情,但是却是含蓄地互相尊重与爱护。
我感恩。

5 条评论:

Vincent Cho 说...

你这样做很好。毕竟他们也越来越年长了,要多回家多沟通:)

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orienman
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